Things get ugly sometimes. Nobody ever wanted it to turn out like this. And when something happens, its like i always say, its never entirely 1 person's fault. Everybody has their role to play in the problem. If tempers could be controlled, if timings were met, if there were no accusations and pointing of fingers, maybe things wouldn't turn out this way.
Sometimes we accept people for who they are. And even though we get angry with them for being who they are, we still want them around. Sometimes all we want is a listening ear and not a solution. And when we get someone to listen, we should appreciate them.
We all have bad days. Some might live a life of joy without ever seeing the need to get angry, some might be more pessimistic and feel down frequently. What ever a person may be, we should try to accept them for who they are. There was something that made u close frens in the first place, focus on that, instead of always looking at the bad side of people.
Confrontational or avoidance. Like every other thing in life, the key is balance. If you have been doing the same thing over and over and its not working, maybe its time to shift towards the other end a little. Maybe its not you to be confrontational, or u might not want to be a hypocrite and act like nothing is wrong. Balance. U cant always be the one giving way, nor does it always work when u keep forcing your way through. If you don't wan to lose a friend, do something about yourself, because its the only thing you can change. U can try to change the other person, but before you try to change another person, change yourself. That's where your actions make a greater statement.
My head's quite heavy now. Vodka peach gets to you pretty easily. Elaine don't forget you owe me a bday treat. Better start training to eat more now so i can exploit you when my I turn 21. Maybe I'll have 21 pratas. Sounds good. U better start saving. Hahahaha.
